The fear of flying is real!! 

Up until six months ago I hadn’t been on a plane in almost 14 years!! Crazy I know. As much as I love the little island of Ireland and the wonderful scenery and things it has to offer, if you want to go anywhere or see any of the rest of Europe and beyond we have two choices! A boat or a plane!! 

Don’t get me wrong as a child my sister and I had a wonderful up bringing. Every summer we had the  holiday abroad with our parents and extended group of our parents friends and their children. You know the type, aunties and uncles and cousins that weren’t really related to you in any shape of form! We flew in planes we travelled on boats, we got to see a lot of Europe and beyond.

Even in my late teens, early twentys I was off on a plane with the girls on our summer holidays abroad. It wasn’t quite club 18-30! But we made the most of our summer holidays. God we deserved it, our hard earned cash, from waiting tables in the local restaurants. We had saved hard and booked our summer breaks at the beginning of each year, paying off in instalments! The late nights and the anti social hours while studying had been rewarded with two weeks each summer, in the sun. 

Fast forward to adulthood, money has been put into raising a family and to be honest becoming a parent changed my outlook on many things in life. But travelling wasn’t one of them. I didn’t feel the need to book foreign holidays or travel to broaden my outlook on life. And while the kids were babies I could think of nothing worse than a package holiday with a toddler in tow. 

I’m not sure if any other mum’s feel or have felt the same, but since becoming a mum I risk access everything!! Flying was one of those. 
I was never a great traveller! Mum often talks about how as a child boarding the plane I would be checking the plane and the surrounding area. Signs of damage, screws missing from seat rails. Then came the on flight safety demonstration! I would read back and front in great detail the evacuation process and often ask my poor parents questions they simply didn’t have the answers too! That was on planes!! Travelling on a boat was worse! We have all watched the movie Titanic, you know the line in the movie when Rose has the conversation with Mr Thomas Andrews,  (the architect/ship designer)  telling them him she has done some maths and she can’t work out if the number of lifeboats is enough for the number of passengers onboard!! That was me!!! I had to know where the nearest muster station was, where the lifejackets would be given out and I once calculated how long it took to get from our cabin to the station should we have to evacuate the boat! 

So why this blogpost? Well since meeting Dave I found myself in the position of needing to travel he’s in England and I’m in Ireland! I needed to put my big girls pants on and take the leap and board that plane!
You see we have that little stretch of water between us known as the Irish Sea! And if we wanted to make a go of it, I had two options, plane or boat!! Now given the choice I would take boat! But the Belfast to Liverpool ferry is an overnight boat (some during the day too) but lasting …..hours!!! So that’s a no go! So plane it was. I was spoilt at first as Dave was happy to do the travelling to me. He travels for business and a thirty minute flight to him would be nothing to him. So that was sorted. For the first couple of months he would fly to see me. 

Then it was my turn!! I had to make that leap!! God I didn’t even have a valid passport, I hadn’t renewed mine in years as I didn’t see the point. I wouldn’t be going anywhere.  ( although I must add that as we are part of the United Kingdom we are able to fly on domestic flights between the north of Ireland and the mainland on valid ID) But I renewed my passport just in case.
My first flight in nearly 14 years!! What a day, infact the weeks leading up to it I sweated half my body weight with worry!! How the heck was I going to be able to get on a flight to England?? 

I stressed over all the things I stressed about as a child and a young adult! And my fear had increased since the downing of more aircraft than before. ( or at least I was aware of more!) but if I wanted to visit England and make a go of my relationship with Dave, I had to fly. 

Six months on and many many flights back and forth to the British mainland (and a surprise birthday treat to Paris! into the mix) I still have a fear of flying! Every fortnight when it is my turn to fly to England I pack my case on the Thursday evening ready for the Friday and my anxiety starts to kick in. All the irrational thoughts of hyjackings, machanical failure to bird strikes are in my head. Then there’s the turbulence! 

I don’t think I’ll ever get over my fear. To this point I have been able to negotiate my way through the various security departments in a few different airports. I know what I can pack in my hand luggage and how much liquids I can carry. I can queue at security and have all the necessary liquids, electrical items, coats, shoes, watches and belts removed without hyperventilating. I can board the plane, climbing the steps without my knees knocking and almost throwing me off balance.  I can find my seat without a panic and the need to check my boarding pass 100 times for my seat number. I can stow my cabin bag either in the overhead locker or under my seat without a panic, and take my seat. But I’m still working on the take-off, flight and landing!!! 
I’d love to hear from anyone who has any suggestions to help me get over my fear of flying and my irrational thoughts! 

Until then I will continue to book my flights and board the planes all in my quest to spend time with my man!


Stepping out in comfort for the school run! 

A few weeks ago as I was hurriedly running around like a mother possessed, buying the last of the school supplies and drowning in items of clothing to individually name. I was contacted by the lovely Tiffany from the health and wellness footwear brand, Strive.

She wanted to know if I’d try a pair of their shoes or boots from their new Autumn/winter range and let them know what I thought. I jumped at the chance. I chose a pair of boots in black; the Bamford. A classic, casual ankle boot developed with a lightweight sole that cushions and supports your feet.

Strive’s  sister company is Europe’s largest custom foot orthotic laboratory supplying the medical market. Together they have used this knowledge and experience to craft a unique contoured footbed (Biomechanical Footbed Technology™) into all of their footwear, which is designed to offer unrivalled comfort, help improved posture and help reduce harmful stresses on your feet and body.

I couldn’t wait to try mine! 

I have been wearing them now most mornings for the school run and for walks in the park with the children and I can honestly say that are the most comfortable boots I have owned in a very long time. You can feel the quality under your feet with the cushioned insoles and they really do support your foot. I’ll be happily wearing these on the school run this winter! Why not pop over to their website and checkout what they have to offer. 


*I was gifted these boots by Strive. All comments and opinions are my own*

Who doesn’t love Retro print?

Great news!! If you are like me and have hundreds of photos on your camera roll but never print them out, I think this will make your Day!
I have teamed up with Cheerz, the photo printing app to bring you a fantastic offer. 
Using the code MJZIP4 you will be able to get your own photos printed off with Cheerz or any of their products both online and via the Cheerz app with 10% off min spend £20.

I used the app on my phone and it was very easy to choose my product, upload the photos I wanted. I even added captions to each photo reminding me where they were taken! 

Cheerz have a range of photo printing options, from regular photos, square prints to retro prints and all in various sizes. I was impressed by the quality of the photos when they arrived. 

Cheerz also do a vast range of photo books in different finishes and sizes. This is my next project, to create a photobook for the children. 

I’d love know what you think of The cheerz app and their photos if you take advantage of the offer.


* I was gifted my prints from Cheerz, but all opinions are my own!*

Galgorm Resort and Spa

Galgorm’s Spa September!

Last week I had the pleasure of being invited to a press event at the Galgorm Resort and Spa, in Ballymena County Antrim, to launch their month long journey of events, exploring mindfulness, wellbeing and relaxation. They have recently completed their £2million spa extension and I was keen to see what they had to offer!

The Galgorm Resort and Spa sits on 163 acres of spectacular parkland, on the banks of the river Maine, a truly outstanding location. I had visited the Galgorm for a friends wedding in the Ghost House and afterwards to a beautiful reception in the Four Seasons Suite and I had been to The River Room for afternoon tea with the girls but I had yet to try the Spa!

The Spa is the ultimate in luxury! I was not disappointed with the reviews I had read prior to my visit. If you are looking for a way to de-stress and switch off from the hectic lifestyles we all tend to lead, then look no further! The spa at the Galgorm is a unique Thermal Village and the first of its kind in Ireland. And access to the Thermal Village facilities are included for all residents of the hotel and are also part of their Day Spa Packages.

So back to my evening at Galgorm! It was a wet and rather gloomy evening, nothing new for Northern Ireland but we were not going to let the weather dampen our spirits! We made our way to the reception are in the Spa, we were greeted by friendly and welcoming staff, easy to see why the spa is an award winning facility! We were directed to the changing rooms to allow us to change into spa robes before heading over to The Orangery.
The Orangery is “the perfect place to unwind after a treatment” a beautifully decorated room with relaxation beds and swing chairs. “A tranquil space of pure comfort and relaxation”

We were greeted by Juliet from Scarlett Pr and Tara the Spa Manager and treated to procecco and a non-alcoholic versions for those of us who were driving. We also sampled delicious canapés from the menu available in the Elements Cafe. Once we had finished mingling and introduced ourselves to fellow bloggers we took our seats ready to listen to what the resort had to offer!

The Orangery at Galgorm

The non-alcoholic option!
Tara Moore is the manager at the Spa and she was on hand to introduce us to the Spa and its wonderful team and welcome us to the wonderful resort. She spoke to us about the recently completed, spa expansion works and explained that we would get to explore the spa at our leisure but not before we had found out all about the new line of products exclusive to the Spa at the Galgorm.

Bioeffect is an Icelandic skincare company that have partnered with the Galgorm Spa to launch a range of professional spa treatments specifically tailored to the Spa at Galgorm. We were treated to a demonstration of one of the bespoke facials using the Bioeffects products.

Bioeffect products

The Orangery Room, overlooking the gardens and River Maine
Once the demonstration was over we made our way through the beautifully manicured grounds to the brand new Spa cafe Dome; Elements. The dome construction of Elements is unique and one of only 5 in the world. Here we were treated to a cocktail masterclass and a feast of freshly prepared food available from the menu at Elements cafe.

The interior of the Elements Dome at Galgorm
Then it was time to explore the thermal village and Spa! It was late at night, it was dark and the heavens had opened! There we were walking around in the Northern Ireland rain in nothing but our bikinis and robe! A truly magical and unforgettable experience as we got to sample the hot tub, jacuzzi, and many other features too many to mention!! We didn’t get to see even half of the facilities so we will definitely be back for another visit soon.

Full 20 metre indoor heated leisure pool at Galgorm

If you fancy a trip to check out the wonder Resort for yourself, the Galgorm team have kindly gifted my followers one hours complimentary thermal Village Experience when you book a Bioeffect Ultimate EFG Facial. This offer is available Monday-Thursday throughout the months of October and November 2017. To book please email Louise on quoting “spa September Bloggers”

If you get the chance to visit the resort soon, be sure to share with me your thoughts! You won’t be disappointed!

*this event was a press event, all opinions and throughts are my own*

Feeling Rather Smug!

Feeling rather smug! 

Last night as I face-timed (Dave my partner) I was stressing out over the amount of items I still had to label and things needing organised for the children going back to school. 

Schools in Northern Ireland finish up for the summer break the last week in June, the kids are then treated to almost nine weeks of freedom from the classrooms. For parents it marks the start of fun filled weeks of family time, making memories (we did this too!) but for me it marked the start of endless arguing, and playing referee to three kids that after an hour of each other’s company ends in them each being sent to separate rooms for time out! 

Asides from being too long a break to keep kids entertained (in a climate that sees on average 3 days of sunshine warm enough to call it summer),  it also gives parents plenty of time to get themselves organised for the new school term. You’d think!!! 
Despite being organised in July with the purchase of most of the kids uniforms in the Marks and Spencers 20% off event, stationary, school bags and lunch boxes added to the list of items bought as the weeks counted down. I found myself in a complete meltdown! I had left things to the last minute again. Nine weeks of summer holidays clearly wasn’t enough time to get organised for the kids going back to school. I knew the dates they went back, they were in my dairy and in my phone. I had no excuse. So why then the last minute rush? 
Fast forward to this morning, the alarm was set for 7am! I was already awake, I woke the kids got them up, washed and dressed and we were all sat eating breakfast for 8! It was an achievement, as all summer I had battled with them to to do anything within a timescale. We even had time for a quick face-time call from Dave, wishing them well and to have a great day in school. 
We left the house for 8.30 and drove to school. Parking was madness and the air of excitement in the car had reached a new level when the kids spotted other children from their classes. 
We walked our way through the school playground, my eldest who doesn’t start school until Friday came with us and helped Connie find her class line in the playground and her friends. I walked on through to the junior playground to find where Reubyn’s line for his class. We found it, put his bags down and without a second thought for me, ran off to play, leaving me standing alone. It was then I realised that was the summer holidays over, routine was back in our lives and I am for one very glad!
Fast forward 12.15, the bell rang and out of the classrooms came lots of happy children. The first day back at school was over! We came home changed out of their uniforms had lunch together. We chatted about their first day back, what their new teachers were like, who they are sitting beside and the buzz from their friends.  They are even looking forward to going back again tomorrow! 
We did it!!! 

P.s maybe next year I’ll be a little more prepared! 

The Little Book of Lykke

A couple of weeks ago as I sifted through my emails, a daily ritual over a fresh brew. I was excited to have received an email from Ruth at Penguin Life Publishers offering me the chance to review the new book by none other than Meik Wiking! Now if you follow me over on Instagram as Mumtothreelittlemonkeys you will know that I adore my books, anything from homes, interiors, cookery and self help books!

Meik’s first book “the Little Book Of Hygge, The danish way to live well.” Was a massive hit and was on The Sunday Times bestseller and The New York times bestseller lists. Not at all surprising as the nation grasped ahold of the concept, Instagram feeds and blog posts were full of all thing hygge. Candles, blankets, cosy fires and simple evenings spent with our nearest and dearest. I loved the concept of “Hygge” (pronounced “HUE-gah”) put simply is the Danish ritual of enjoying life’s simple pleasures.

The new book due to be released on general sale on the 7 September, arrived on my door step yesterday morning. Well when I say it arrived, I was fast asleep and the postman knocked my door so hard I thought the house was on fire! Hand delivered – no less and no need to rush off to the local post office with that dreaded red card in hand for a missed delivery!

It was totally worth the abrupt awakening!

This beautifully wrapped present is the latest book by the author Meik Wiking CEO of the Happiness Research Institute in Copenhagen. He has committed his life to finding out what makes people happy and in his last book concluded that Hygge is the magic ingredient.

In his new book The Little Book of Lykke, Meik looks at the concept of Lykke (Luu-kah) (n): Happiness.

The Little Book of Lykke

So what has this little book got in store for us?

I was excited to get the nicely wrapped parcel opened and start flicking through the pages. I haven’t been able to put it down since opening it. Like the first book The little book of Hygge, it is a beautifully presented book, wonderful illustrations an photos throughout. The contents of the book is decided into nine chapters,

1, The Treasure Hunt

2, How do you measure happiness?

3, Togetherness

4, Money

5, Health

6, Freedom

7, Trust

8, Kindness

9, Putting the pieces together.

In this book Meik takes us on a treasure hunt to unlock the doors to a good life. From how we spend our precious time, to how we relate to our neighbours and cook dinner. He has gathered evidence and stories and tips from around the world and put them together in this little book as the ultimate guide to how we can all find a little more lykke in our lives.

I’m already sure that this little book will become another go to book that will sit on my coffee table, that both my children and visitors alike will pick up for a read. It is available on general sale from the 7 September, and you can pre-order it on Amazon at the offer price of five pounds, I have added the link here, Little book of Lykke

I would love to hear what you think of Meik’s latest book!



A Smear could save your life. 

It’s cervical cancer awareness week! This year it runs from the 22-28 of January and I’ve decided to share my story. 
It was August 2008, I was 29, in good health and I got my routine smear test appointment through the post. As I did every three years I rang the surgery to make an appointment.  But this year was different. Jade Goody the big brother reality television star had passed away from cervical cancer in March. She left behind two young children and I couldn’t help think about her as I made the appointment. I too had two small children, Harrison was three and Connie was 8 months old. 
A couple of weeks passed and I attended the GP for my smear, my Doctor is lovely and put me right at ease. She did the smear and said the same thing she had on previous occasions “everything looks good, I’ll send these away and you’ll get the results in a few weeks.” 

A few weeks passed and life was busy with the kids, I was still on maternity leave enjoying being a mum. I forgot all about the smear results,  until one day in October my mobile rang and it was the surgery asking me if I could come in for a repeat smear. At first I thought maybe they had lost my first test. 

So off I went  to the surgery. I sat in the waiting room and when I heard my name called made my way to the room. This time I could sense something wasn’t quite right. Call it a sixth sense or years of working as a nurse but I knew this wasn’t going to be the usual “Hi Claire how’s the family, kids getting big” type chat. 
My GP sat at her desk and started to read the computer screen. I had, had my smear in the middle of August and it was now nearing the end of October, results that are usually back in a couple of weeks had taken almost 9 weeks. Put down to the “Jade effect”  the screening service all over the UK had seen a sharp rise in women attending for a smear putting increased pressure on the system. 

The news wasn’t what I had expected! My results had shown I had CIN 2 ( CIN 2 – is where abnormal cells have been detected and there’s a moderate chance the cells will become cancerous and treatment to remove them is usually recommended). 
I was shocked, I had never had an abnormal result before, I had no symptoms and I found myself asking why me? Everything went through my head and all I could think about was I’m I going to get cancer? My paternal grandmother had died at the age of 61 of uterine cancer I was scared. 
That day was a blur, the GP decided against a repeat smear and instead arranged for a appointment at the local hospital for a colposcopy. The next couple of weeks I didn’t function and couldn’t get past the fact my results had been abnormal. 
My appointment came through for the colposcopy and I attended my appointment. I had read the literature sent out with the appointment and googled everything I could possibly get my eyes on! I knew what to expect. 

The Doctors and nurses were lovely, putting me at ease explaining and carrying out the test. It was a little uncomfortable but I kept thinking I had two babies I can do this! 

The colposcopy was straightforward the Doctor was able to tell me there and then I was going to need further treatment. The area on my cervix however was bigger than she had expected given my results and instead of being able to treat me during the colposcopy, she would need to arrange a day procedure appointment. She took some samples to send away and said she would see me in a couple of weeks. 

Waiting was the worst. I was supposed to be enjoying motherhood. The day came and I was admitted to hospital to have a procedure known as (LLETZ) – large loop excision of the transformation zone. A procedure were a heated wire loop is used to remove the abnormal cells. LLETZ is usually carried out while you’re awake using local anaesthetic to numb the cervix and once recovered you can go home the same day. However the Doctor had previously advised that because I had such a large area and I was such an emotional mess she would put me to sleep if I preferred. So that was it! A general anaesthetic it was going to be. I remember the day clearly , I sat up on the ward with the other women in my theatre gown and fancy stockings waiting for my turn. I was a mess, they say nurses make the worst patients and they are right in my case! I cried like a baby walking down to theatre, it wasn’t just Cancer that was freaking me out it was the fear I wasn’t going to wake up! 

The surgery went well, the anaesthetic nurse came to visit me afterwards up on the ward and we had a laugh at the fact I had got from 10 down to 2 and was still awake! They had to give me quite a bit of medication to get me to sleep and it would probably take me a little longer to feel totally with it and ready to go home.
I left that afternoon thankful to still be alive, and happy to be going home to my babies. 

A week later I had a follow up appointment at the hospital to discuss the result of the biopsies taken during surgery and generally check I was healing. I had bled quite a bit after the surgery and was still spotting. I had a little discomfort but nothing a couple of paracetamol didn’t sort. I thought I was on the homeward straight. But my journey didn’t end there. 
Nothing could have prepared me for what was next. I sat there in front of the consultant that had done my surgery, she had my notes in her hand. Looking over the top of her glasses she started to tell me that surgery hadn’t got rid of all the abnormal cells as expected and that the biopsy taken had shown CGIN. ( CGIN is were the there’s a high chance the cells will become cancerous and treatment to remove them is recommended).

She recommended further treatment that would require more surgery and this time she recommended a cone biopsy. A cone biopsy is a minor operation to cut out a cone-shaped piece of tissue containing the abnormal cells only tends to be used if a large area of tissue needs to be removed. 

Yet again I found myself thinking the worst! A couple of weeks passed and I had the surgery, and got the news I had waited months for. They had got rid of all the abnormal cells. The next step would be a smear at 6 months for a year then yearly smears depending on the results. 

I’m now 8 years on from 6 months of stress, appointments, tests and two operations. I have kept up to date with my smears and I happy to report they have all been normal. I even carried another pregnancy to term despite the cone biopsy weakening my cervix. 
I thank my lucky stars every day I attended for my routine smear. The doctor said the changes in my results between initial smear, colposcopy and biopsies taken in theatre she had no doubt the story would have been a very different one had I not attended for my smear when I did. It was unfortunate that my initial results had taken so long to be reported, however I feel the outcome would probably have been the same. 
Don’t hesitate, put off or make excuses for not attending for a smear. 5 minutes could save your life, it did mine. 

The facts, 
Every day in the UK 9 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer

3 women lose their lives from the disease every day

Cervical cancer is the most common cancer in women aged 35

75% of cervical cancers are prevented by cervical screening (smear tests) 

However 1 in 4 women do not attend this potentially life-saving test  source Jo’s Trust

New year and plenty of Christmas memories made!

I have neglected my blog for a few weeks. There just haven’t been enough hours in the day. 
Christmas holidays and kids off school for half-term made for a busy household. Nothing new there! 

On the run up to Christmas I find it difficult to get into the Christmas spirit. While everyone is itching to put their Christmas trees up as soon as December arrives, I on the other hand tend to wait until the last minute. I’m not sure what it is, whether it is the clutter of the decorations around the house, or my reluctance to just run with the excitement! However once in the mood for Christmas there’s no stopping me! 
When the children were born I decided we would have some Christmas traditions we would do each year. From the elves bringing the kids their new pyjamas in time for Santa arriving, to eating out with family on Christmas Eve to making Christmas cookies to give out to family and friends. Then there are the Christmas movies!! 
Everyone loves Christmas movies, don’t they? I’m one of those 30 something females who gets rather excited by the appearance of the Christmas channels on the sky planner!  There’s nothing quite like watching a Christmas movie to get you in the Christmas spirit.  There are many great Christmas movies out there from the Home Alone movies to Miracle on 34th Street. And let’s face it there is nothing nicer than sitting with the kids, snuggled in front of the fire under cosy blankets and eating popcorn, watching a movie!

This Christmas we had the pleasure of being invited to see a showing of the Polar Express in the wonderful surroundings of The Ulster Transport and Folk Museum. The Polar Express is a family favourite so we jumped at the chance!   It was arranged by the Pop up cinema club, a company that specialises in  cinema experiences in a variety of unique locations throughout the year. 

So off we went, on a dark December evening, dressed in our Christmas jumpers to the Transport Museum. The excitement levels were high, even for my eldest son who at 11 is a non-believer, but is more than happy to go along with the story of Santa for the benefit of his younger siblings. (Much to my relief.)
We parked the car up and made our way toward the museum. On arrival we were greeted by the friendly museum staff who issued our special tickets for the showing. 

As we made our way towards the train gallery we had our tickets punched in true Polar Express fashion! A conductor, complete with uniform and playing the part to the amazement of the children! 

The surroundings of the museum did not disappoint. 

Before the start of the movie the kids had the opportunity to play and explore some of the restored Trains that are housed at the museum. 

We had Hot Chocolate, Popcorn and Cookies during the showing. 

After the movie as the credits started to roll, a bell started to ring and the appearance of a certain man, dressed in his red suit appeared at the back of the hall! The children were ecstatic and ran to greet him. Santa with the help of the conductor greeted each child and gave them a little bell as a small memento of the evening. Santa was very good with all the children and happily posed for photos! 

We had a fantastic evening and an experience neither the kids or I will forget. Adding to our Christmas memories. 

To book tickets for special showings throughout the year & for further information go to Pop Up Cinema Club.



All opinions are my own.

Christmas Gifts for teachers! 

For your mistle toes!!!
The month of December has passed rather hurriedly and with only two days left before the kids finish school for the Christmas break. The pressure was on to come up with a quick and easy gift to make for the teachers.

With three children all of school age, the amount of teachers, classroom assistants, and specialist teachers all add up so I always look for an easy to make present, that is not only simple to make but cost effective too! 
This year I decided with the help of Pinterest to make these simple nail polish and nail files gift bags for the teachers. 

You will need. 

Nail polish

Nail files

Gift tags

Small gift bags


For your mistle toes printable from

Firstly I printed out the “printable” on to white paper and cut it to size to fit the gift tag. If you are good at freehand lettering you could skip this stage and just write the message freehand.
For your mistle toes gift tag

Then I added a message in chalk pen to the back of the tag.

Add your message to the reverse

Now you are ready to wrap one nail polish and a nail file in your gift bag. You could add hand cream into your gift bag if you wanted to spend a little more. 
Ready to wrap
Finished teachers gift

Such a quick and easy gift to make for all the female teachers, classroom assistants. 

If you have male teachers to buy for, you could replace the nail polish and file with a pair of socks and still use the same tag! 
Happy making!!